Body Language in Flirting

Body Language in Flirting

Male and female courtship signals have been studied, and the basic conclusions
are that these signals are completely unconscious. The more you consciously
understand the signals, the better and more successful you will be when courting
the object of your desire, whether it is the man or woman of your dreams.

To master the art of successful flirting, you have to feel good about yourself
first. Be confident. Be yourself, or else you will look deceitful or desperate.
Flirting can be utilized in just about anything, not just in
attracting the
opposite sex, but also in attaining just about anything you want in your life.
This can be described as good flirting. Good flirting should be done with a
precise understanding of what you really want, coupled with positive sensations.

I have interviewed a number of successful men and women in the field of network
marketing and advertising in their 30s and 40s. Here are their tips on how you
can put good flirting to your advantage:

 

Don’t worry about whether you are making a good impression or not. Instead,
analyze how you can make the other person feel good. By doing this, you will get
the feedback you are expecting. Soon you will make the connection.

Flirting can help you make friends or impress a client if you make yourself
approachable. Put a smile on your face, as it gives you an aura of being
friendly.
Remember that you cannot attract people just by sitting or standing like a
statue. There will be instances when you will encounter a person who gets a
little bit too close for comfort feel, or someone who makes you feel you are
already invading privacy. No matter what you do, you would get a so-called
“vacuum” reaction. Tough one, huh? You can avoid this by using gentle moves and
by calibrating the person’s reactions to you. Be aware of these signals: mouths
get larger, the lips swell, eyes widen, pupils dilate, skin flushes and changes
color, muscles around the mouth move, among others.

Be persistent. Flirting works best when you are patient. By being such, you will
have room for improvement if at first you aren’t getting the results you want.
If you fail the first time, do it again the second time, third time, just keep
trying. Try different approaches until you realize what will really work best
for you. If you were rejected, don’t give up. This goes with the sayings, “To
err is human” and “Nobody’s perfect.”

This is probably for me the most interesting and somehow funniest tip I got:
“Practice in the mirror, only then can you make it perfect!” This is especially
true in meeting friends and prospects, because flirting may involve unwanted
actions and attention which can put you in the bad light. You may be spontaneous
in your actions, but you can’t guard yourself if you are already overdoing it,
and I supposed you don’t want to be in that situation. Try practicing with your
close friends and ask for feedback.

Make the first move! Opportunities knock only once, so if you want something or
even someone, go for it, now! Let go of your inhibitions. But remember to apply
positive or good flirting. Who knows if the person you meet at that moment is
your gateway towards the fulfillment of your dreams.